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A+ Advice for Parents
Don't get caught up on college rankings
By Leanna Landsmann
Q: I'm a high-school senior applying to colleges, and my mother
is driving me crazy. She heard our high-school counselor say that
college rankings aren't all that useful, so she's not paying any
attention to the rankings of schools I like. We need to narrow
the list of places I want to apply to. I have pretty good grades,
and I definitely want to go to a good school, and I'm very upset.
How can I convince my mom that the rankings really matter?
A: Let's focus on the good news: You're headed to college. You
and your mom are thinking through an important decision together.
Many families don't give the path to college enough thought, so
hats off to you both.
"Every student wants to know how the colleges they are considering
are ranked," says Laura Jeanne Hammond, editor in chief of
Next Step Magazine, a publication that helps high schoolers plan
for college. Whether you're using the famous (or to some, infamous)
U.S. News & World Report rankings or guides such as Princeton
Review, Fiske, Peterson's or the National Survey of Student Engagement, "the
craving for rankings is totally understandable. You're about to
spend a good chunk of money on your college education. You want
to be sure that it is a good investment."
The problem is that students and parents tend to get caught up
in rankings. Families are more likely to seriously consider a college
if they have confirmation from somewhere that it's a "good" school
and therefore worth the money, says Hammond. The truth is that
while rankings may sell magazines, they are just one tool -- and
a minor one at that -- in the selection of a college.
"What the rankings don't take into effect is the intensely
personalized aspects of college planning," Hammond says. "Families
need to have honest discussions about important questions."
Hammond suggests that you start with these: How much can your
family afford? What is your post-college goal? How much does a
college's name, location and prestige matter in the career you
think you want to pursue? How motivated are you to take advantage
of premium programs or specialized majors? Is it worth it to go
to a well-known college with excellent programs in math if you're
really interested in art instead? What good is a college's report
stating that most students on campus get involved in clubs or social
opportunities if you wouldn't be caught dead at a college-sponsored
function?
"Don't start with the rankings," Hammond advises. "Start
with who you are, what fits your personality and what matches your
career goals."
It sure would be nice to push a button and discover the best college
for you, Hammond sympathizes, "but your counselor is right.
There's no one button, one report, one ranking that can do it.
The best way to find a perfect college fit is to put boots to the
ground and visit. Ask questions. Talk with students and faculty.
Get a feel for what campus is like. Do you feel comfortable there?
Can you imagine walking to class? Meeting friends? Estimate the
financial impact on the family."
The choice involves not only data but also many intangibles, including
a "gut feeling" about the place that will make you feel
comfortable there and do your best work. "You could attend
No Name U and become class president, work hard to earn a fantastic
internship and become a Fortune 500 CEO by age 30. Many CEOs have," says
Hammond. "Or you could never speak up in class, never join
any activities and fade into a boring post-graduation job just
as easily at No Name U as you could at an Ivy League school."
Stop arguing with your mom about those college rankings and start
looking at all the reasons a place might be right for you. "Say
you want to be a top chef. Even though a particular school may
be in the top-10 culinary programs, you might not like the location,
the teaching style or the class requirements. The only person who
can determine whether a college is the 'best' or not is you."
COUNSELOR TIP
For more advice on picking a college and surviving the applications
process, go to nextstepmagazine.com. The site's College Match section
can help narrow your choices and find scholarship aid. If you register
to be a "Next Stepper," you could win $20,000 in tuition
assistance.
Copyright 2007, United Feature Syndicate, Inc.
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